The questions and views other people have has nothing to do with you. It is how they view the world and their own self. Stay with those who see you as a person who is a positive asset. Be careful who you choose to hang out with since it is your highest price you are spending in which you will never get back. Look at the whole picture of others who you are around. Do you honestly see yourself wanting to be in their place? Are they truly working on going in the direction they desire or are they looking down on you? Stay with the people who are positive and doing more productive actions every day.
Be Thankful For Everything And Everyone
Thank everyone you come into contact with. Show appreciation for what they do. Mentors are what help quality of life go to a higher life. People do not have to help you at all. It is their personal choice to step in and time is the highest price anyone can pay. I want to say thank you to all who have been supportive in one way or another throughout the years.
Build Others Up Around You
Taking the time to build others around you up is a big key to developing relationships over the long run. When the people around you do well let them know. Many people these days don't feel appreciated for what they do in day to day life. When you encourage and give high praise they will want to help you more naturally since you took the time to show they are important. Feeling wanted and of higher value makes them want to do and be more. We all need this from time to time.
Do You Have A Vision For Your Future?
Where do you see yourself in 5 to 10 years from now? Are you learning more things as you go along to equip yourself? You never know, you could be fired from your job for any reason under the sun and at any time. Why focus on your job only when you have more time past your 40 hours. If you don't do this, you can become homeless and instead of this you can take control of your life every day. What matters is your self talk when speaking about yourself. Everyone else may feel like they are against you. You have to be a constant learner. The wealthiest people in the world have so why not you.
Priorities Change In What Is Important
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When You Make An Unintentional Mistake, Do Your Best to Fix it
When you make a mistake no matter how big or small apologize and make it right the best you can. Learn from your mistakes and never do it again. There are better choices to make in life and I have learned personally from all of them. I appreciate those who have forgiven me and moved on.
Separate Yourself By Going Beyond Everyone Else
Give support to those who you least expect. You never know, the person who you support may come back at a certain time when you need it the most. Don't expect a return. It has to be natural and authentic. I was the one who supported a local artist in materials and pushing him to create. It lit him on fire since I could see it in his eyes how much he loves art. He said to me, I am the only one who supported him out everyone else. See yourself as the other person and do what is the right thing in the correct time.
Develop A Community Around You Where Everyone Helps Another
Having the mindset of helping others with what you have a great skill and others may lack is a great way to build up your network. You may never know until you need something where they are awesome at in where you lack. Eventually it all comes around.
Structure Your Life In An Inspiring Way
Thinking about what means the most to you and structure it as your every day life. By surrounding yourself in a challenging atmosphere is more important then only being comfortable. If you are always comfortable then you will be stagnant. By structure your life in a certain way it shows the values you hold. When you look at icons of our time and past times, they created the life they value the most.
Letting Go For Others To Experience What You Have
There is a piece of my work I will miss since it is a deep part of who I am. Sharing it with others is more important then to only focus on what I want. Many times the hardest thing for you to do is the most worth it as a shifting change. The shift may take years, however you have to look at it as, This is the best for me to do. By sharing who you are, it frees your mind and soul.