Deciding to work on being in my happiness wasn't an easy choice. There will be sacrifices and choices to shift in the direction needed. I understand there is so much to deal with in creating your own dream into reality. I hold onto the vision I have for many years. When your own family is negative and don't see it, I decided to back away even though I want to be closer. People change over time and become different then when growing up.I can not force change on my family. They have to be willing to want to shift and be a better person every day as a bench mark. In bringing the most important aspects of life is creating a lasting legacy.