In the present time, we go through hardships whether it would be a death, a mistake, misjudgement, loss of all different aspects. In the moment it is the most influential time. The question is, Would you view these situations in hindsight as though you are speaking to yourself in a comforting way and learning from each one?
For someone it can evoke strong emotion for each trigger. The whole ideas can haunt each person for a decades and potentially for a lifetime. For each individual this is all subject to powerful moments in their life. Understanding what has been learned from the situation is more critical then the at the moment it is happening. Healing is the starting point of knowledge.
What mistakes have you learned from? I would like to hear from you.