As a mentality I see plaguing so much of society is pointing the finger at everyone else except for the person in the mirror. It is the victim mentality. Do these people understand if they take ownership over their life and actions, life as they see it, flip a 180 in a completely different direction. Happiness and contentment is waiting for each person who decides to take charge of their life instead of being ran over every day in and day out. I used to think this way until I received an awakening.

One person I was talking to said, “If everyone else does their “Job”, I said to this individual, that is an excuse to point the finger at everyone else except for yourself. You can’t control what everyone else does, however, you can control what you do. If you honestly make the time to do what you need to do no matter how busy you are it will get done. From there they improved and took ownership of theirself.

By accepting where you are, what you have, and where you choose to go is a large part of taking control over your life. Seeking what have been the triggered issues from your childhood and the snowballing events over the years to decades lies the answers you are asking for. In the words we use and how is is spoken is the current state we have chosen to project. Reading :Code To Joy” book has helped me to heal and dig deeper in which I should have over a decade ago. The main choice now is I have chosen to do something about it now instead of letting my life go by. You owe it to yourself to dig deep and answer your issues by learning more about yourself. In learning about who you are , you will become a better version of yourself by asking honest questions.