People go through so much we never know even on the outside everything appears to fine. Everyone needs to know someone is there for them. Just like the situation of when my mother was in the hospital. I didn’t know if she was going to come back alive and completely all here in the present. The hosptials need to create a program of where they play the videos speaking to their loved ones who are in the coma. No, the loved ones can’t speak out loud, they can hear you in what you speak. I hugged on her. I told her I love her. I told her, I am proud of her. I encouraged her to want to live.
In knowing even in the small areas of what people are dealing with and have dealt with, show understanding and compassion for their own well-being. These days, too many people look down on everyone else for having flaws or mess ups when in reality, we need to see the short comings as being human. Show you care about them even without the fact you benefiting at all. See yourself as the other individual. Do you want others to care about you? Show you care about them before they will care about you. Remember this.