Choosing to be happy in life is one of the most challenging choices to make. Especially with the loss of losing loved ones, the countless distractions, family members who don’t see eye to eye with you nor really supportive, time going by so fast by the year even though you are the same person striving to be your best.

Not honestly knowing how long you have to spend with your family such my parents, feeling like you have no time because of working so much to have not nearly as much as what is being put in. Not being understood, and surrounded by people who have so much self limiting beliefs, it blinds them to from truly being happy. I want the best for my mother. She has dealt with depression all of her life. My mother is working through losing both of her parents, (my grandparents). They were the best part of her life and a stable home, she didn’t have from her biological parents. Thankfully the opportunity came from my grandparents adopting my mother. I believe it was for a better reason.

Yes, I want to spend time with my family, since they have been there from day one. I still think about my grandparents, and uncles I lost last year. I know, no one lives forever and each individual has to want to live in order to live longer. I can visibly see vitality and vibrancy in their being.

Create a life’s purpose instead of living in someone else’s perception. Yes honor their legacy however you have your own mark to make.