Instead of letting everyone else dictate what your life holds, why not take time in your morning to have a peaceful quiet time. When I started doing this, it helped me to have sharper focus rather then having life go by. These days time does go by so fast before we even blink an eye. Where do you see your gifts can shine the best today? Why not write down what you enjoy doing and the skills developed over the years to decades.
In taking inventory, a light shines where we need to the most. A large portion of the time, assets are around us the whole time waiting for us to acknowledge it. Years ago, I said to a woman I am sure you have an attorney in your circle. She didn’t believe me until she finally thought about it. The attorney had helped her years ago and was ready to help her where she needs. Always keep great terms with people who can really help you.